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Den · Posted 01-26-2018, 08:36 PM

mom and I got into it a bit earlier. 'cause I get confused about dates and stuff, and she said "It's because you don't work, every day is the same". I flat out told her "No, it's not. each day is NOT the same to me. Do NOT assume that about me." even if I was working, and each day was different, I would still get confused.

tsukiko · Posted 01-27-2018, 06:04 AM

i think we all get confused about dates and stuff once in awhile...

*leaves hugs for all*

Den · Posted 01-27-2018, 06:43 PM

The thing is, she's getting this attitude of "I know more about this than you do, even though you're the one actually experiencing this". Yeah, she may have mild depression, but she sure as fuck isn't Autistic, she sure as fuck isn't dealing with moderate depression, she sure as fuck isn't dealing with general anxiety disorder, and she sure as fuck isn't dealing with PTSD. I am. I can't always articulate what is going on with me verbally, which just adds to the complicating factors...

mdom · Posted 01-27-2018, 07:24 PM

Aww... it's a mom thing, I think :< they like to believe they know it all and their 'kids' (even though we're adults) know nothing.

Serra Britt · Posted 01-27-2018, 08:16 PM

Parents just want to help, but sometimes they need to listen to their kids as equals.

Den · Posted 01-27-2018, 08:34 PM

it'll be a cold day in hell before that happens in my house.

tsukiko · Posted 01-27-2018, 09:45 PM

*offers hugs to den*

Serra Britt · Posted 01-27-2018, 11:14 PM

I suppose she expects you to respect her too Den? -_-

I'm so sorry you have to put up with that :/

Den · Posted 01-27-2018, 11:17 PM

More than likely. I have a feeling Mom and I will have to have another mediated discussion with my therapist. I'd LOVE to get Dad in to one, too, but I know that won't happen

Tam I am · Posted 01-27-2018, 11:52 PM

*big hugs for Den*

Today has left me feeling disconnected. Wow. Ugh.

Den · Posted 01-28-2018, 12:01 AM

tonight kinda was alright, 'cause she and Dad weren't home, but at the same time, i had to take care of the animals. thankfully, the dog didn't run off like he likes to do some days.

Serra Britt · Posted 01-28-2018, 01:32 AM

-offers Den hugs-

Makes me upset when parents don't respect or try to understand their kids, and then are shocked when they don't get respect back.

KittyBeary · Posted 01-28-2018, 01:35 AM

*hugs Den* Parents can be tough sometimes. x_x

Tam I am · Posted 01-28-2018, 03:27 PM

Which is why I might not recognize either of mine on the street, even though I lived with 'em for twenty years.

Den · Posted 01-28-2018, 08:07 PM

my goal is to eventually be living where they can't visit me without it being a huge pain in the ass for them. 'cause I will insist they stay at a hotel. Mostly because Dad smokes, and I don't want my future home to have a slight stink of cigarette smoke.

Glitch · Posted 01-28-2018, 08:10 PM

hope everybody is doing well <3

		#1970	tsukiko ADICTED
i think we all get confused about dates and stuff once in awhile... leaves hugs for all clicking the dancie fox will take you to my dA currently questing for both furballs "Who's a good foxy? Who's...wait, why are you growl...OH THE PAIN!"
	Posted 01-27-2018, 06:04 AM

Serra Britt Neko-chan Nya Nya~			#1973
	Parents just want to help, but sometimes they need to listen to their kids as equals. ♥ Never be afraid to be yourself ♥ Want to see my art or webcomic? Serra's Art Gallery A Neko's Quest \| My Closet Kitsune's Haven Image courtesty of tsukiko
		Posted 01-27-2018, 08:16 PM

tsukiko ADICTED			#1975
	offers hugs to den clicking the dancie fox will take you to my dA currently questing for both furballs "Who's a good foxy? Who's...wait, why are you growl...OH THE PAIN!"
		Posted 01-27-2018, 09:45 PM

		#1976	Serra Britt Neko-chan Nya Nya~
I suppose she expects you to respect her too Den? -_- I'm so sorry you have to put up with that :/ ♥ Never be afraid to be yourself ♥ Want to see my art or webcomic? Serra's Art Gallery A Neko's Quest \| My Closet Kitsune's Haven Image courtesty of tsukiko
	Posted 01-27-2018, 11:14 PM

		#1978	Tam I am I Am Tam
big hugs for Den Today has left me feeling disconnected. Wow. Ugh. I'm not very active right now, because of stuff. If you don't see me around and you really need to get hold of me, you can yell at me over at one of these places? My blog. KofK CS FR Gaia
	Posted 01-27-2018, 11:52 PM

		#1972	mdom Jellosexual
Aww... it's a mom thing, I think :< they like to believe they know it all and their 'kids' (even though we're adults) know nothing.
	Posted 01-27-2018, 07:24 PM

		#1980	Serra Britt Neko-chan Nya Nya~
-offers Den hugs- Makes me upset when parents don't respect or try to understand their kids, and then are shocked when they don't get respect back. ♥ Never be afraid to be yourself ♥ Want to see my art or webcomic? Serra's Art Gallery A Neko's Quest \| My Closet Kitsune's Haven Image courtesty of tsukiko
	Posted 01-28-2018, 01:32 AM

KittyBeary More More More Magic			#1981
	hugs Den Parents can be tough sometimes. x_x 2020 may be a difficult year, but I know we can all get through it together. Just believe in yourselves. ty bluebird for the art
		Posted 01-28-2018, 01:35 AM

		#1982	Tam I am I Am Tam
Which is why I might not recognize either of mine on the street, even though I lived with 'em for twenty years. I'm not very active right now, because of stuff. If you don't see me around and you really need to get hold of me, you can yell at me over at one of these places? My blog. KofK CS FR Gaia
	Posted 01-28-2018, 03:27 PM

		#1984	Glitch Pixels
hope everybody is doing well <3
	Posted 01-28-2018, 08:10 PM

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