[Rainbowfox Ari]

Dear Arri,

Trying to change people isn't going to help anyone, unless you first change yourself. You have many bad habits, just as they do, only some of them actually have medical reasons for it. You're not superman - you can't save the day with a baby in one arm, and a breadtruck in the other. As much as it might seem like you can't do anything at all, as much as you might understand what people are doing to themselves and the eventual consequences [damn you medical books] - there are just some things you can't do. Can't do. Not won't do. You always seem to get that confused.
These people know you want to help them. They know they should be listening to you. But there isn't anything you can do - and you know it, they know it. Stop making people feel bad. It makes you a nasty person.

And we don't want to be a nasty person, do we?

- Yourself.